German Girl, 25. All those years trying to figure out where I belong, who I am, where I see myself in the future..struggling. Always struggling. Once I stopped trying to make it right for others and started focussing on what I TRULY wanted..I was able to see myself blossoming. And that in return attracted the right people & happiness into my life. I learned that the people who really want to be part of your life, believe me, they will stay. You don't have to ever beg them. Give your best shot to show them that you want to be their friend but then let them go. The answer will always become clear. And what I've learned about love is that if he's the One.. you will know. Be kind, be humble, be generous, be forgiving, be patient, be diligent, be understanding, be organized, be healthy, be loyal, be respectful and trust in the people that matter to you..but most of all: ALWAYS be yourself. -T.O.